Hugh Hefner, the founder of Playboy magazine is dead.
The Catholic Church teaches that at the moment of death the eternal destiny of each soul is determined. You go up or you go down.
Hugh Hefner led a life that was not only sexually self indulgent, but it objectified women, glamorized sin and caused millions to dive into sin with carefree abandon. He not only hurt women, but helped in the breakdown of marriage, the destruction of the family and contributed to the culture of contraception, abortion and death. Predictably, he is being hailed as a trailblazer, a man ahead of his time, an entrepreneur and a great American.
“Playboy” was an apt name because his hedonistic lifestyle encouraged millions of men to treat sex as play time and to remain boys–addicted to adolescent fantasies about sex. A man who sold women? Entrepreneur is one name. I can think of a few others. A trailblazer? What he did may have been daring, but it was not new.
But let’s cut to the chase. The man is dead. The question remains– is Hugh Hefner in hell?
It’s not for me, or anyone to determine that. Any soul, at any time, up to the last moment may experience the grace of repentance and faith. He was ninety one. In his final years of old age did he have regrets? Did he turn to the light? We don’t know. We can hope.
Saint Faustina had a private vision in which every soul, and the point of death, saw the merciful Christ who asked three times, “Do you love me?” and only the souls who refused his love three times would depart into the dark.
Maybe those who would condemn Hugh Hefner can see beneath the celebrity fornicator a lonely little boy looking for love. Maybe when he came face to face with the source of Love he said “Yes, this is what I have been looking for all my life…”
On the other hand, St Faustina was no softy when it comes to hell, and we’re not to conclude that everybody will say yes to Jesus’ invitation. FAustina warns soberly about the reality of hell and shares her vision of it. If you want to read what she saw go here.
Now, some have speculated that the choice St Faustina visualizes is the summary of all the soul’s choices on earth. If Hugh Hefner rejected his Christian upbringing and turned from the Beautiful True Love of Christ every time he was exposed to it in his earthly life, the hope that at the end he would make a different choice seems remote.
We don’t know. It is God’s mercy not our condemnation that matters.
Hugh Hefner’s death gives the opportunity to ask why the Catholic Church condemns pornography and the Playboy lifestyle.
“What’s wrong with looking at pictures of pretty ladies?” you might well ask.
There is nothing wrong with the naked human form as such. God made it and God doesn’t make junk. Certainly the classical understanding of the nude in art is that it is possible to appreciate the nude human form for its ideal beauty without eroticism.
However, this was not what Playboy was about and everybody knows it. This was not aesthetic appreciation of the human form, nor was it love. It was lust, and like all lust one thing leads to another. There is little doubt that we would be experiencing the epidemic of porn in our society if it weren’t for Hugh Hefner and Playboy magazine.
Pornography is one sin in a long list of sexual sins: adultery, fornication, masturbation, prostitution, homosexual actions, pedophilia, artificial contraception, abortion…you know the whole list.
But why are these things wrong? Simply because some old men in red robes in Rome decided to come up with a list of naughty things to make people feel guilty about? Are they wrong because purse lipped puritans disapprove? Is it wrong because Christians think sex is dirty?
No. Something is wrong because it distorts or destroys something that is beautiful, good and true. Evil is nothing positive and good. It is always a good thing broken or twisted or destroyed. I explore this theme further in my book Praying the Rosary for Spiritual Warfare.
The sexual sins are wrong because they break the beautiful, true and good thing called marriage. God created man and woman to love one.another and give themselves to one another totally, and from this to bring forth new life and new eternal souls.
Marriage is a delicate and difficult gift. It breaks easily. It requires a lifetime of dedication, hard work and self sacrifice. A good marriage is a rare, beautiful and eternal incarnation of love in which both persons are treasured.
In sacramental marriage we experience the divine graces that give us a ladder to heaven. Marriage expresses the love God has for us. He is the bridegroom. We are the bride. Marriage is therefore a sacred, God given joy and the sexual act seals it and makes it complete. The sexual act is therefore, sacramental.
The sexual sins that Playboy promoted spit on all that. They trample that. They pull down the ladder to heaven and break it. The little boys playing with themselves and looking at pictures are avoiding true love and running from that sacrifice and that sacrament. The result is women treated as playthings. The result is unwanted pregnancies, abandoned women and aborted children.
Is Hugh Hefner in hell? I hope not.
If St Faustina’s vision is correct I hope he saw true love and said “I’m sorry. I accept your love. Let me go now and serve my time and be purified.”
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Written by Father Dwight Longenecker
Fr. Longenecker is a former Evangelical, then an Anglican priest, now a Catholic priest. Fr. Dwight enjoys movies, blogging, books, riding his motorcycle and visiting Benedictine monasteries. He’s married to Alison. They have four children, named Benedict, Madeleine, Theodore and Elias. They live in Greenville, South Carolina with a black Labrador named Anna, a chocolate Lab named Felicity, a cat named James and various other pets. His website can be found here.
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It was a cold, dreary night in early December when I pulled up to the big white door of the Guesthouse, at Our Lady of Bethlehem Abbey in Portglenone, County Antrim. I could see dim lights in windows nestled in far off corners, and I received the sighing wind, crooning through trees and unseen corridors. Nothing moved. Above me my Queen gazed down, and lovingly willed my entry with her Christ child’s blessing. I moved forward.
He showed me upstairs to my quarters and as we walked he introduced me to the layout of the building and the grounds outside. I was a good hour late, and by that time the Cistercian monks of the monastery were asleep, but Abbot Dom Celsus gave no indication of inconvenience. After I had settled my bags, he sat with me in conversation as I ate. He listened mostly. What were my thoughts? How did I come to be there? I talked as though it were important. He listened as though only One Will really mattered.
Up stairs and through passages, I finally found the palatial hall containing our King and there I knelt in veneration. “Oh God have mercy!” The monks shuffled in quietly one by one in their white and black attire. They held to their vow of silence. Something deep and ancient was occurring. They did not acknowledge me. They did not even look in my direction. They attended their places behind two long wooden rows of tables, obedient and intent. A large wooden crucifix hung above the altar. It bestowed an unmistakable essence filling the vastness of the room. To this day, the influence of that cross sears my memory and compels me back, as though my spirit dwelt with it. When in need of peace I close my eyes and rest there. The monks began simply and ended simply. Their elemental chanting of the psalms was profoundly moving. It was a place where no concern existed only God. God was the focus; God was the goal. As they recited, “Glory be the Father…” they bowed. I bowed with them because for those brief moments I was one of them; I was one with them, in Him.
A third monk I spoke to was approaching his mid eighties. He was a brother and I was fascinated to discover he had not been outside the walls of the abbey in sixty years. I wanted to know everything about his life but he was unwilling to explore the past. His present was all that mattered and his future was given to God. Who or what he was before was in the hands of Jesus. He offered me advice about a vocation. He seemed to think that monastic life was my call and he assumed that I was discerning a vocation, so he offered me advice. “Your twenties is a good time to be entering,” he said. “At that stage you have experienced a little of life and you are more sure of where you are headed.” He longed for young faces to grace the walls of the monastery again. However, I feared he was unaware of the changes Ireland has endured in the sixty years he had been cloistered. Young men are no longer hearing God call them, being so engaged with a relentless and aggressive culture, which is determined to remove Catholicism.
Not many people recognize the power of monastics in our world. While we busy ourselves with life and worldly care, those simple men are praying for us. I once heard monasteries described as the “powerhouses of the world,” as they keep the world alive with their prayers. If they were to disappear, our world would crumble, and yet today, many of the monks are aging and few young men are replacing them. How can we convince young men to give up so many modern comforts to replace it with something more difficult, but ultimately a life that would fill them with true and absolute serenity?
As my time at Portglenone monastery drew to a close, I considered the treasure I was leaving behind. My vocational call lay elsewhere. I knew that with certainty, but I also could not shake the voice of God imploring me to be silent and to listen. He was speaking, and he would lead me on. I could be afraid of nothing if I trusted Him to shepherd. God is whispering to us all, and if we would only let him in then the world would be healed.
I grew up in a loving, comfortable atheist household of professional scientists. My dad was a lapsed Catholic, and my mom was a lapsed Lutheran. From the time that I could think rationally on the subject, I did not believe in God. God was an imaginary being for which there was no proof. At best, God was a fantasy for half-witted people to compensate their ignorance and make themselves feel better about their own mortality. At worst, God was a perverse delusion responsible for most of the atrocities committed by the human race.
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I locked in the last shovel-full of soil, and tossed it over my shoulder as wee Barney called me to grab my coat. He was a man pushing seventy-six years of life. Yet, here he was, spritely as a man half that, jumping in and out of the back of lorries and heaving even the heaviest loads. He had worked his days on some building site or other. He wore the face of a well-grafted soldier dedicated to his craft, and yet his craft was humble. He dug holes for a living, mixed concrete and shifted dirt. He did what he was toul’ to do, and he was known to have faced even the rancid jobs, that lesser men have ran from.
Barney had lost his wife not long before we worked together. He still had his children, but you could tell that losing her weighed heavy upon his breast. The more we sat together, the more he related to me the circumstances of her last moments. He harbored anger and resentment about the manner under which she went. Strong though he was, he was powerless to prevent it, and those that held the power had let him down. In his life, her presence had meant something profound to him, and yet he rarely noted it. She was always there for him, to take him back even after long absences, where he squandered his money and time on anything but his family duties. She was his home and his warmth.
From a third floor window, I leaned out slightly into the dull, rusty light of the evening. I did not expect to see or hear others. The shaking sides of the wooden building made me wonder, “Who could venture out?” I could barely make out a shape in the suffocated sky. Desolation abound. The sand swelled in leaps and swirls, consuming the trees. The pale light of street lamps barely protruded the darkened smother. The wind cursed the sun. Sharp, piercing particles bristled my beard and floated aimlessly upward, and down to the gloom below. How long had it been blowing? I was not sure now the time I had even been sitting there watching for life and movement. Nothing emerged. The dreary evening sobbed and croaked to it’s end, then from nowhere, a shuddering wail of a foghorn ululating, through the void. A great grey hulk, a ghostly ship proceeding forth from emptiness, unstoppable, unbreakable, bold and brawn. I watched it pass, and then back to emptiness it was gone.
As any parent should, I love my children with absolute giving to the point that I would bequeath every effort for their good. However, I am faced with the decision of sending them to be immersed in a culture that promotes ideology contrary to perfection. It is not only that they will be exposed to arguments in favor of vice but also, it is almost worse, that they might be exposed to mediocrity or indifference to virtue. It is likely that they will rarely have enthusiasm for virtue expressed to them through the words and especially the actions of adults and peers outside their family. They will be presented with people living lives that contradict virtue, making it seem like vice is the proper way to live. Culture today regularly celebrates promiscuity along with overindulgence on alcohol and drugs. It praises abortion, multiple forms of sexual deviance including homosexual actions, cohabitation without marriage, sex without commitment and pornography. Culture promotes independence despite responsibility. It scorns holiness, as religion and virtue become mere sideshows to their depravity, something to make them feel good now and again.
I watched the sun reflect off the old broken mirror in the hedge of my grandmother’s front garden. It was always there, though we never knew why. We never questioned its presence. Most Irish homes in those days had some odd knick-knacks or out of place bric-a-bracs tied up with bailer twine or stuck solid to dulled white washed walls. Our world was fascinating. Occasionally, my cousins and I would venture over to the mirror and peer inside. We would imagine another world in there with children and people just like us, watching us, wishing they could play with us, or that we could go on secret adventures into each other’s worlds. Those days never ended, for they were measured by life, not time.
It is clear why our little children should endear us. That is no puzzle. What is confusing is why we stop being endeared by people as they grow older and also, to a greater extent, by those people who are not connected to us by the bonds of family.
Oh how the rain falls o’er the fields as I peer out upon another dreary Irish evening. By my side this cup of tea befriends the laptop on my knee. Surely it must be the most dismal hour of the year, this January lull. The Christmas decorations have now lost their light and warmth. Disinterested, they have become clutter perched in corners awaiting their annual undoing, if only I could locate the impulse. A crow screeches above me heralding oncoming gloom. It is enough to give a man writer’s block.
Here is the definition of education provided by the Encyclopedia Britannica:
One of my greatest hero’s in life is my wife and I will tell you why. There is none so humble as the person who takes upon her the mantle of love, and who gives herself for the good of others. She rarely sits but in each moment she is giving something, small or large, for the fulfillment of her mission, to be mother, to be wife, to be a coworker, a sister, a friend. She works tirelessly, though she tires and yet she finds the strength to give. Her life is not focused on how she can find rest but upon how rest might be found for others. To her example, I fall gravely short, each and every moment I waste on the frivolous.
We must be paying attention to our moments and constantly reflecting, “Is this what He wants?” Get to know Christ. Know Him intimately; who He is, His life, His way, His Truth, for He is the calling of a real man. Not believing in Him is too convenient, an excuse to never change. Accusing other believers is another desperate diversion to prevent us from making the effort. Men who do these things have abdicated manhood. They reject penance for the comfortable.
The sun rises on a cold Dublin December and the arms of a warrior are held high in exultation. He is triumphant. He is glorified. He belongs to us. The hearts of a nation bleed in pride. The ghost of Cú Chulainn echoes through the centuries as his haunting voice chants our battle hymn, “As down a glen one Easter morn, to a city fair rode I…” For he has united us, and now we stand together behind him as he holds aloft his crown of victory.
McGregor has made great noise of his love for Ireland, of his love for its people and his love has brought him to tears. He would bleed for us, he would be beaten and broken and torn apart for us, to raise us up. He would never submit. He would never give up. The story of man, the story of who man should be. His people he would unite and the battle cries would resonate around the world.
We are all called to be great. When the time comes we are urged to be ready to give everything we are for the good of others. Every person is called to die to self and give everything for those he loves (and hates) including all his desires and dreams. Are we strong enough? In Ireland, the people have wandered so long in a fog of confusion. They have forgotten Truth. In their desperation for Truth they have filled their lives with things, comforts, idols or anything to make them forget the emptiness. Truth has become whatever we choose or feels good, not something specifically to be pursued. We build ourselves higher and greater. We look to others as examples of perfection. We cling on for dear life and we hope. Yet still through the fog the horn blasts loud and shrill and something, calling us to greatness, infiltrates our hearts. We search and seek. If only we knew where to find. That is Truth. Oh God help us! Oh God save us!